Recently, I have been reflecting on motherhood. Not so much for me, as a mother (whenever that may be), but how mothers create and foster a strong sense of 'home'. Unfortunately, in mid October, my husband and I, with many of his family members watched bedside as his sweet, sweet grandmother passed away. She was surrounded by her loving husband of 68 years, 3 out of the 5 of her children, a son-in-law, a few of her grand children and their spouses, and a yet-to-be-born great-grand child, (my niece!-more on that in December). There was so much love around her when she passed, there was little chance of it being a difficult passing. It was an emotional day, but I am so glad I was there to support my husband and his family.
A few short days later, my wonderful sister-in-law, Marisa, gave the eulogy at the funeral. She recollected how Grandma Sullivan was the glue that kept their family together, she created a HOME for all of the generations of her clan. She was famous for always feeding her family and particularly tempting the little ones in the family with sweets. Either way, through actual sweets or just her sweet personality, she helped to welcome, love, and create a sense of home. Marisa referenced how she was creative, with a studio in her renovated garage, welcoming in all the family members to paint, create, or just find any way to express themselves through art. In fact, there will be a piece of Grandma Sullivan's art in my new niece's nursery. She also noted how one of Grandma Sullivan's daughters whispered in her ear before she passed "Thank you for being a wonderful mother to all of us." What an amazing feat to be the mother of five, grandmother of eleven, and great-grandmother of nine! She truly was a wonderful grandmother and mother to so many. When my grandmother passed two years ago, I said to Grandma Sullivan, "I do not have any more grandparents, can you adopt me as one of your own?" She graciously accepted both verbally and truly. I always felt like one of her "kids" even after only knowing each other for three short years.
All of these thoughts and experiences, could not help but illuminate the links between the home and motherhood. When I created this blog, I did not intend on posting things of this nature, but I guess life helps to dictate our thoughts and connections. Motherhood is so directly linked to the title of this blog - mothers inspire, mothers create, and mothers are often times our home - our warm, safe place.
When I think of my own mother, she will be able to spoken of in the same way that Grandma Sullivan was; bringing the family together, loving, caring, and offering a space to be creative and to foster creativity in family members and friends that come into our home. My mothers art is all over the house I grew up in and in my new home with my husband. I believe that it is a syncronistic thing to be lucky enough to have more than one strong, creative, loving, female role model, that have influenced me and will continue to influence me as I embark on motherhood. I truly feel blessed.
Thank you to all the wonderful mothers that this description relates to! Thank you to all the wonderful mothers in MY life; Momma Lizzie, Grammy, Grandma Sullivan, Marty, Susan, Grandma Mattei, Aunt Betsey,....the list goes on and on! Like I said, I truly feel blessed.
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